"A beautiful flower begins it's life in the dirt. - Rise, baby, rise!" 6Elements Consulting & Coaching
A very good friend of mine got me thinking the other day about the above quote (check her out, she rocks!!!) ... it challenged me to think about the various trials and choices in my life that could have kept me "stuck" or "moving forward!" It has not been easy to clean out the dirt in my life, but it has beyond worth it.
I am choosing to look at each situation that I encounter in my life with humility. Whoa, huge! It's not easy to look at oneself and say, err oops - I think I've got a pride issue!? Isn't it just so easy to shift the blame on the situation or a person?
For far too long, I walked around with a "victim" attitude. I felt I deserved to behave certain ways (poorly, might I add) because I had been hurt by various people and trials in my life. It was as if I gave myself a free pass to misbehave. Of course, now looking back I wish I had listened to the mentors placed in my life, and had taken a "square" path, it certainly would have caused less pain to overcome today. Our choices today not only impact the now, but also the future. It's been a humbling, painful, yet freeing lesson to learn. I feel blessed to be able to walk with some incredible women that can be transparent about where they came from, where they are going, and the dirty moments that got them to rise above.
Keep digging up the dirt because it can produce such great beauty when you allow the Healer to clean that mess up... <3 Whoot!